Anonymous asked: Follow me?? <3
I can’t if you’re anonymous!
lenudemermaid asked: you have the best clothes. lol
Why thank you! Target and Forever 21 are where I get most of my things, haha. And online :)
Anonymous asked: You are an awesome person... There are a few girls like you nowadays... :)
Everyone has the potential to be awesome, as long as they are themselves! Thank you!
Anonymous asked: Be mine, you're perfect.
I am most definitely not perfect! But thank you. I am taken though! And he treats me wonderfully. <3
It hurts me so badly when I hear one person talking badly about another, especially if they do not know the other person.
This is because I have heard information relayed back to me about myself that is not close to being true.
Because one person becomes jealous of another, they feel the need to create words and stories that are not real. Why? I do not understand. There is a 98% chance that person means no harm and if you feel threatened, there is a gigantic chance they did not mean to threaten you.
I never rely off others’ words when it comes to getting to know someone. If I want to get to know a person, I will get to know them myself. I do not trust the words of others.
When I hear things about myself it really disappoints and saddens me that there are people out there who are believing what others are saying and will not take their own time to get to know me. I am such a loving spirit. I look for love and beauty in everything. I look for life.
One of the most recent incidents was one in which I gained feelings for a guy who I had started talking to. We clicked greatly. I thought it was awesome. Then I was given the news that he had a girlfriend. I had absolutely no idea. If I would have known, I would have NEVER been flirtatious with him. I apologized to his girlfriend and I really hope she took it to heart. I mean no harm at all and I wish them much love together.
Another thing that has been on my mind a lot lately is the vast amount of beautiful people there are in this world. I get down on myself like many other people do, then I realize every person has their own contribution of beauty to this world. There will always be someone you see to be more beautiful than yourself, but they have their own problems, flaws, weaknesses… no one is perfect. You are what you are. Work with what you have. Confidence in oneself helps bring out natural beauty.
I have seen labeling SPECIFICALLY when it comes to women. A girl’s beauty does not correlate to her actions or beliefs. I have seen a few pictures of beautiful ladies in band merchandise and people making comments such as “band whores,” “scene sluts,” and so on. This angers me so much! Does it make these people feel “cool” by making these types of comments? You look like an idiot for labeling someone who you do not know, based off their appearance.
Next time you see someone who you have heard something about but do not know personally, go up to them and introduce yourself, strike up conversation, and give them a compliment. Get to know people for yourself. Do not take other peoples’ words and turn them into your own thoughts.
More love is needed in this world and in order to achieve this we must change our thought processes. Think positively and give compliments instead of thinking the worst and throwing insults.
Make your time here full of pleasant experiences. Please love this life.
<3
